It might be that you've heard the term "Celebrant", but you aren't 100% sure what a funeral celebrant is or what they do.
A celebrant will officiate at your loved ones celebration of life or funeral. A celebrant is not a vicar or an ordained minister, but they can be religions and include religious elements to your loved ones service, if that's what you would like. This can range from the Lord's Prayer, a religious reading or hymns. Some families don't want to include religious elements and that's also fine too.
When it comes to organising a funeral, it might be that you've come across a celebrant that you'd like to use before. They might be someone you've already worked with, or someone you know. If you aren't sure, then your Funeral Director will suggest someone.
Once I have been contacted regarding a funeral, then I will get in touch with you and arrange to come and see you. I will confirm everything in an email and also give you a few things to think about ahead of our meeting.
Family members and friends are welcome to come along to the meeting. We will have a chat about your loved one and I will ask a lot of questions, so that I can really get a sense of your loved one. What was important to them, what they were proud of, things they liked, disliked, and things that were important to you as a family.
We can also look at photos and mementoes.
We will discuss the atmosphere and tone of the service and how you’d like that conveyed. I’ll also talk you through any practical issues that might arise on the day.
We can discuss any contribution you or your family and friends might like to make on the day, whether that’s a poem, a reading or delivering a eulogy or tribute, or placing a card or flower on the coffin. I can help you choose poetry and readings.
Following on from our initial meeting, I will write a ceremony that is personal and unique and will reflect and celebrate the life of the person who has died. I will send you a draft of the eulogy a few days beforehand and we can make as many changes as necessary until it's perfect.
On the day of the funeral, I will liaise with the Funeral Director and crematorium staff, to ensure that everything is organised and will run smoothly. I’ll conduct the service sensitively and professionally and in accordance with your wishes. There will be time for everyone to reflect on their cherished memories and to mourn their passing, as well as reflecting on the happy times you spent together and celebrate your loved ones life.
If you would like to talk to me about conducting a service on behalf of your family then please contact me via my website or email katiethecelebrant@gmail.com
Comments